A leader can say all the right things and still leave a room feeling uneasy while another can say something imperfect, even incomplete, and leave people feeling energised and safe. The difference is rarely the content.
We tend to think of communication as the words we choose. The email we send. The point we make in a meeting. But some of the most powerful messages we send have no words at all. Silence communicates. It just doesn't always communicate what we intend.
Ever heard something about our work — or ourselves — that landed like a punch. Even when it was delivered carefully and meant well. The problem isn't always how feedback is given. Sometimes it's what happens inside us when we hear it.
Teresa was exhausted. She had no idea how to say no and her life showed it. Anytime someone casually mentioned an idea, she would take over the whole project. She became everyone’s unofficial PA, whether she was asked or not.